No Christmas tree so far this year. My daughter has talked about getting a tiny one for the table. The one I gave away to some needy soul, hopefully, was a Martha Stewart tree I bought on clearance about 4 years ago with money my mom had given me for Christmas.
Does the psychopath/sociopath care that he tricked me into giving away and selling 11 years of accumulated goods and some things I had for many more years than that?
Last Christmas I spent with him, and we had no decorations, no presents. He had paid the previous wife extra money that year, on top of what he owed her, as far as I know, with the money he made me withdraw from my bank account every month to hand over to him to spend as he saw fit. He did budget fifty bucks a week for me to spend on groceries. And he ate like a horse. I lost weight while I was there.
Yep, after he tricked me into giving up everything and moving to Tucson, with literally 3 suit cases, he took me back in, knowing I was a broken soul, knowing he could hurt me over and over and I would take it, for one psychotic reason or another, none of which made sense. ** I know he hurt me more than he had hurt the 3rd/5th wife, physically anyway, because he could get away with it. I was so beaten down.
And he knew that the Sangamon County Prosecutor would probably not do anything to him. He had covered his ass, making me sign papers and such, so he thought, and by lying to other people. It is one reason I taped him dictating to me what to write. They can't use that as an excuse anymore. He even says on the tapes he needed the "sword" removed from over his head the way he promised me there would be no "sword" over my head if I went back in March. He bullied me intensely for not doing what he said, on tape.
So, Merry Christmas one and all. Ornaments I had for many years are gone, partly because my other ex didn't help my kids get all the stuff I wanted them to have. Whether they pressured him enough to let them use the truck I don't know. I just know that at the end, when the pressure was on for me to get to Tucson on schedule, a schedule I didn't know never even existed, my former day care provider cleared out the house, taking what she wanted and telling me she would give away the rest to people who needed it.
Will the psychopath/sociopath tell anyone the truth about how he tricked me? He did tell one person, the person who gave him the idea in the first place. Yes, women can be sick people too, who lie and cheat and manipulate.
I was NEVER anything like them. EVER.
He burned my granddaughter's back with a cigarette before he knew my ex and daughter had used the CSPO and the Illinois State Police Internet Crimes case 1371 against him. If he hadn't done that, all they would have had was his net meltdown and the accusations of the Paterson, New Jersey and Sioux Falls, South Dakota victims. But, he did burn her and I saw the marks myself, and it was just as my granddaughter said, the circumstances around him being alone with her.
Merry Christmas. Happy Hanukkah.
** He tricked a woman from Holland into giving up everything and moving to the US. She went to Springfield, where he met with her and summarily abandoned her. He hadn't been there very long, in Springfield, where he went following the McNealy CSPO in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, before he met his third/fifth wife who to my understanding let him move in on their first date, and was married to her by the time he met with Martha. So, he let that poor woman move here and give up everything, probably because he knew he was using the third/fifth wife anyway, as he uses everyone, so why not test the water, in his mind, for he has no care for the consequences for the victims. I talked to the Jehovah's Witnesses of Central Springfield, to one gentleman in particular who had helped Martha, along with other "brothers" to get back to Holland. That gentleman was going to contact the police in Springfield over a month ago. I gave him Sgt Anderson's name to ask for. Was anything done about it? Dean defrauded a foreign woman and committed some sort of international crime. Does anyone who can act on it care about a middle-aged woman victim? I guess you have to be Rhianna or have your face blown off as was just on Oprah for people to really care? It would seem so. Meanwhile, women are making a living off of other women's pain and their primary focus, in reality, is funding and making sure they have a job, which is human nature, so they have been bought out and silenced to a large extent, by the government bureaucracies, courts, prosecutors and private attorneys who use them as pawns. And they don't even realize. He bragged that when he was a hobo he could find some woman to take him in shortly after landing in a new town or city. I believe it. He met one woman in Springfield, who let him park the RV he blackmailed the SD victim into buying him in her yard, at the St. John's breadline.
(QUALIFICATION: The people discussed on this blog are or have been supposed directors of what have been purported to be charitable foundations, The Myria Foundation, and The Encyclopedia Foundation and so are public figures subject to public scrutiny of their character. I was a duped into becoming involved, first as a "director" of The Encyclopedia Foundation and then as a "Founding Director" of The Myria Foundation, verifiable with the Illinois Secretary of State's office. I paid for the incorporation of The Myria Foundation and I have a legal right to discuss this. This is MY life, and I am a witness to crimes no one seems to want to do anything about. I have over 2 inches of documents and hours of wav. files to back me up and the alleged illegal behaviors here have been reported to the Attorney General's office in Illinois as well as the State's Attorney of Sangamon County and the Springfield Police, and are part of various court records. It is my layman's opinion that Dean West is a sociopath, based on observed and documented behaviors. He is on probation right now for resisting a peace officer and I know there is a warrant out for him violating the RO of one of his net victims in Paterson, New Jersey and to the best of my knowledge there is a warrant out of South Dakota right now also. Any questions? Feel free to e-mail me at email@example.com or call me at 440-285-2648. Google "Kathleen Callahan and Ambien" for links with information showing Kathleen Callahan is a public figure. My friend Janet Makinen was involved in that suit as well and you can see her involvement if you google her name with Ambien.)